Tuesday, December 18, 2012

American Social Illness



As a teacher and as Aunt Mimi to my beautiful three year old niece Hanna, the violence in our schools tears my heart apart.  After the terrible tragedy this Friday at Sandy Hook Elementary School, many are quick to jump on the gun control bandwagon.  Personally, I think blaming this tragedy on guns vastly oversimplifies the issue. I think it's a sign of a much larger social illness in our society. 

For example, the bombardment of violence in the media and entertainment desensitizes people. For instance, growing up I was not allowed to watch bloody, violent shows or play those kinds of games...to this day, I can't stomach the violence on a lot of those shows and other forms of media and entertainment. Thus, I am still quite sensitive to violence.   I had to get up and leave the movie theater during the movie, Blood Diamond, because the violence upset me so much.  I had to stop watching the TV series, 24, because it gave me horrible nightmares…think about it…each episode of that show was an hour of one day…and at least one person died violently in every episode.  But the media and our entertainment is only part of the problem.

Another issue is how our children are being raised and educated.  For example, I was raised to respect and fear the danger of guns. Since my dad is a hunter, he taught me about gun safety and also the value of life. He taught me that killing an animal to put dinner on the table for his family is not the same as killing for sport.  Additionally, my father taught me never to point a gun at a person, to always have the safety on, never bring a loaded gun into the house and other important lessons.  

In addition, our children are no longer taught morality in school as many of the older generations were.  Likewise, God, spirituality and religion have fallen to the wayside in many of my fellow Americans.  I learned from my family, from my school and from my church that killing a human being is one of the worst possible sins.  I was blessed to be brought up so well by my parents, but American values are changing.  

I think blaming our problems on guns is far too simple of a solution and will not really address the issues of what Americans value and how we raise our children. Moreover, a lack of compassion and empathy in our society damages the collective soul of our nation.  Lack of mental health care also contributes to this overall social problem. All of these issues in totality are creating a collective social illness in my opinion.

 Image from Time.com

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Grandma Hrico

I feel like my Grandma was trying to get me ready for these last hours of her life and that she knew her time was running short over the past couple of years.  Four or five years ago, she gave me a bunch of their Christmas decorations when they were getting too old to put them all out...I cherish each ornament as I place it on the tree...especially the ones my pap made.  They also gave me a bunch of little under-the-tree decorations that my pap made...he loved his plaster of paris and his paints. Over the past couple years since I moved back home, Grandma gave me all kinds of little things from an emergency kit for my car to kitchen odds and ends. I most treasure the silverware she gave me that she was given for her wedding.  But more importantly, it has been a blessing these past years that I moved back home because I got to spend more time with them.  Last year, we all went to church on their wedding anniversary and sang together in Slovak "God Grant Us Many Years."  But my Grandma knew...she commented that would probably be the last anniversary we all could gather together at the church for.  She hung on for one more anniversary this year in the nursing home...64 years!  I pray tonight that she doesn't have to suffer too much more and that she finds peace in God's loving embrace.
(Photo below is their 50 year wedding anniversary)

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

It's Been a While...

Since school started in the middle of August, I have been a tremendously busy little bee...and I couldn't be happier.  Between my primary teaching job at the community college and my part-time waitressing job, I have almost forgotten what it means to have any free-time.  In addition, I have been attending a teaching workshop at the college on Saturdays to sharpen my teaching skills.

Even though I'm teaching part-time this semester, I have been blessed to have four of my own classes this fall.  It's so nice to have a familiar group of students once again.  I also love having a place to work on a regular basis where I belong--much better than subbing in different buildings all the time.  It's a lot easier to get to know other teachers this way, and my teaching conference helps there as well.  I have met some inspiring mentors and many creative intellectuals.  In addition, it's great to be in such a rich academic and culturally diverse environment.  

When I do have some free time, I have been enjoying a few low key hobbies.  I've been doing a lot of reading as always...I'm addicted to Terry Goodkind's 14 book series, "Wizards' First Rule." Currently, I'm on book six, Faith of the Fallen.  Also, the garden is still producing some fall favorites...zucchini galore and a few watermelon and pumpkins have been my latest harvests.  And the crazy giant sunflower plants that have been growing to at least ten feet tall have finally gotten flowers!  Finally, I've been working on my family history project website. 
 
 If you haven't checked this out yet, the website contains historic documents, photos and stories of my families heritage.  It is a work in progress, but I've been spending a lot of my "writing" time on the family genealogy project.  The website address for my family history project is:  http://hricofamilyhistoryproject.shutterfly.com/.  I would love to hear what you think! 

I'm working on collecting bits of genealogical information so that I can write up little stories about my ancestors.  The first of these stories that I've written is about my great-grandmother, Mary Bujko Hrico.  I've shared this story below.


New Discoveries and an Old Project—Mary Bujko Hrico
August 7, 2012
In 1994, as a freshman in high school, I began a project that required me to explore my ancestry and write a report for my social studies class.  I learned about my family mostly through my living relatives like my Grandpap Hrico and my mom MaryAnn.  Now, over 15 years later, I am revisiting the information that I found for my report and using the clues from my school days to help me delve further into my ancestors’ lives.  With the assistance of modern technologies, such as the Internet, I now have access to photocopies of many original records that are available to those willing to search for them.

Most interesting to me has been finding copies of original records, such as ship manifests, that have allowed me to begin to trace my ancestors back to their native lands.  Using these records, I have been able to piece together interesting stories of the journeys of my ancestors.  For example, several of my ancestors on my father’s side came to America from what was known as the Austria-Hungarian Empire to escape from the violence and poverty associated with the early rumblings of World War I.  They came here as Slovak-speaking children and crossed the vast Atlantic Ocean alone to arrive in a strange, new land.  The fortunate ones came here to meet other family members in Pennsylvania who had arrived before them.  Using the resources available to me online and cross-referencing them with other written records that my father George and I have collected over the years, I am beginning to see fascinating glimpses into the lives of my predecessors.  In a way, I am getting to know the family that I have never met and to appreciate what they did to ensure our family a new start in a new life.

Most recently, I have been investigating my Grandpap Hrico’s parents’ immigration from the central part of the Austria-Hungarian Empire to the United States around the turn of the 20th century.  Using some facts from my 1994 report I was able to learn a little about my great-grandmother Mary Bujko Hrico…for example, she was heading to Eastern Pennsylvania when she arrived in the U.S.  However, there was a big question I had on Mary Bujko Hrico's birthday...but I finally solved the puzzle.  I determined the exact date of her birth which was off by one year on my report from school...she was actually born April 16th, 1890.  An important document that helped me with this process was the copy of John Hrico’s (Mary’s husband’s) naturalization papers from 1920.  I also used a 1930 United States Census to verify Mary’s birthday.  Using my ancestry.com membership, I was able to print these documents and find a great amount of new and valuable information.  The facts on the naturalization papers gave me what I would need to find the immigration records of both Mary Bujko Hrico and John Hrico.

Using the date of Mary Bujko’s birth from the naturalization records, I first found Mary’s immigration records on the Ellis Island website (a free resource to the public).  Next, I verified that it was the correct Mary Bujko by cross-referencing information my pap had given me for my 1994 Family History Project...in particular that Mary was from Stefanovce in Austria-Hungary and that she was on her way to Coatesville, PA initially.  From the ship’s manifest that I obtained from the Ellis Island website, I learned that Mary was 16 when she came here.  She also did not arrived on the ship with any other Bujkos, so I believe that she traveled alone and with very little money (approximately $2).  The ship’s manifest says she was coming to stay with her brother Mike who was already in Coatesville.  Mary’s journey across the Atlantic Ocean began when she left her home in Stefanocz, Austria-Hungary and boarded the passenger ship called the Noordam on July 21st, 1906 in Rotterdam, Holland.  Ten days later, Mary arrived in New York, New York at Ellis Island.  From New York, Mary traveled Coatesville in Eastern Pennsylvania to meet her brother Mike Bujko.  She would ultimately end up in Homestead, PA.

My knowledge of Mary Bujko’s story continues in a 1994 letter from my grandfather. She worked in Coatesville as a housemaid for a wealthy Jewish couple.  Mary’s first husband was George Vasco.  She and George had four children, but two died at an early age.  She was left with Michael and Mary.  George and Mary Vargo owned two bowling alleys and four pool halls.  Then Mary was widowed after George died from pneumonia. 

Mary then married a widower name John Hrico who had six of his own offspring…three boys and three girls (that’s they way they became the Brady Bunch).  John and Mary Hrico had three more children, one of whom was my grandfather, George Hrico.  In 1921 after John lost his job at the Steel Mills in Homestead due to a strike, he and Mary opened a butcher shop.  They funded the butcher shop with the money Mary got from the businesses she owned. 

Later during the Depression, the family lost the butcher shop.  My dad recently told me that they went out of businesses because they gave away too much food for free during the Depression.

During all of this, Mary taught herself to sew on a machine and became a skilled seamstress and was able to earn a few dollars on the side.  She was able to make dresses from “scratch”—without using a pattern.  My grandpap recalled watching his mother sew, and now as I sit at my own sewing machine sewing with no patterns, I feel connected with my great-grandmother who I never knew.

Sunday, July 1, 2012

How Does Your Garden Grow?

A blogging friend recently posed the question, "How Does Your Garden Grow?" in her family blog.  My answer:  greener and greener!
















Most of the veggies and fruits are growing and thriving.  The strawberry patch yielded more berries than we knew what to do with.  Our tomato plants have little green tomatoes growing...and I'm craving some fried green tomatoes!





The zucchini plants are doing especially well as you can see from our first harvest of the summer!








We haven't been so fortunate with all of our crops, though.  Despite our fence, some little critters still snuck their way in and devoured our corn, pea and bean plants.  We've replanted all three and need to get some smaller meshed fencing to put around the bottom of our existing fence.  Only one of our watermelons and one of our pumpkins took.  You can see the one surviving corn stalk:


















Luckily for me, my favorite recipe only requires zucchinis...and lots of them!  I brought the zucchinis into the house and shredded up the four biggest to get myself 12 cups of shredded zucchini...just enough for six loaves of zucchini bread...my favorite summer recipe.  Making, baking, and freezing zucchini bread has become a sacred summer ritual for me.
The recipe I use is delicious and can be altered in all kinds of fun ways.  For example, a cup of chocolate chips to the mix makes a yummy dessert.  If your sweet tooth craves something besides chocolate, try topping the bread with cream cheese icing.  Also, if you're out of zucchini, you can make substitutions with other shredded veggies from your garden or fridge such as summer squash, carrots, or pumpkin.  Finally, if your not the nutty type, feel free to hold the walnuts...the bread will still be quite delicious. 

Homemade Zucchini Bread Recipe


Ingredients:
4 cups shredded zucchini (with some of the liquid drained off)
3 cups all purpose flour
2 1/2 cups sugar
1 1/4 cup vegetable oil
4 beaten eggs
1 tablespoon and 1 teaspoon of vanilla extract
1 tablespoon of ground cinnamon
1 1/2 teaspoons of salt
1 1/2 teaspoons of baking soda
1/2 teaspoon of baking powder
1 cup of chopped walnuts

Preparation:
1.  Grease the bottom of two bread pans.
2.  Blend ingredients, scraping the bowl often.
3.  Pour into pans.  Be careful not to fill the pans to the tops...the bread will expand as it bakes.
4.  Bake at 325°F for 1 hour and 10 minutes. 
5.  Cool for 10 minutes, then remove from pan and cool completely.


So, how does your garden grow?

 

 

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Monday, June 18, 2012

Bon Voyage!

Like so many Northerners, I headed south to Florida for my summer vacation.  Unlike most tourists, when I go to Florida, I stay with my sister out in the Florida countryside...well away from the beach.  I love her new house and the great big yard out back!







 Hanna loves playing in her new yard!


 Even though it was raining and cloudy for the first 5 days I was there, I had a great time babysitting my niece and just hanging out.  We found other fun things to do with our time like blowing bubbles, riding a bike and building a doll house to play with!










 An excellent rainy day project...Hanna even helped with things like gluing and smoothing on the contact paper.





One cloudy and drizzly day, we went to the zoo and took pictures of the animals...I used my camera, and Hanna used her Leap Pad and tried my camera!  We saw lots of neat animals, but Hanna's favorite was the peacock.

















I loved the monkeys!



On the first nice day, we went swimming at the PGA National Resort and Spa!  It was finally a great day for swimming!



Later that day, I got to see Hanna perform in her dance recital.  Her adorable antics made the whole crowd chuckle.  The Lion King dance routine with her 2-4 year old age group was precious.




On Sunday we went to visit with our family in Geneva, Florida which is further North.  We enjoyed spending time with my 93 year old grandpap, my aunt and uncle and cousins.





Finally with two days left of my trip, the sun really came out and we hit the beach.  We drove to the coast and met my sisters' sister-in-law and her kids at Juno beach for the day.  Hanna and I both love swimming in the ocean.







 

Finally on my last day, we got some carrots and set off on a bike ride to the end of Hanna's new street.  Her neighbor owns an assortment of goats and sheep that Hanna couldn't wait to go feed.  She was a little hesitant at first but soon called the petit animals her friends.






I can't wait until Hanna and her mommy and daddy come to visit us in Pennsylvania in July so we can have lots more fun together!






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